If you are unhappy with what you see before you, or the situation you find yourself in change your attitude, change your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, it will change the words you use to tell the story, thereby changing the story.
It’s never the other person or the situation; it is always the story you tell that creates what you label a problem and traps you in discomfort and pain.
We know your ego may not always want to hear this, but it is so.